Creepers..

So this comes up a lot with my friends. I don't understand why. I don't see why it's a big issue but yeah, it comes up all the time... it came up today actually. Apparently there's something with me and dating older guys. My boyfriend of 3 years is 8 years older than me and that's fine with me and I've dated older guys but when I talked to my friends about it... they act like there's something wrong with it.

I know they mean well but I'm all grown up and I can decide whom I want to date. I think in their eyes 4 years is too much. I think for someone my age 20 years is a little much but whatever. I don't think you can't help who you're attracted to and as long as both people are old enough (past the age of consent I guess) you can do whatever floats your boat. I have no problem standing up to people that are older than me and giving them my two cents. So what's the problem? Most guys don't mind, at least I don't think they do or in my experience they didn't so why the stigma? It's not like I'm 13 and he's some creepy old man trying "stuff."