Cheating.... the most foul thing you can do to your "beloved" boyfriend or girlfriend. It lets the other person know that you never truly loved them enough to be honest. It's especially agitating when you are the friend caught in between the madness. let me explain:
there's three of us who have been tight friends since September. for security reasons (through my compassion for them has decreased greatly) lets call them 'Leah' and 'Paul'. We all were just friends first semester and all was well (all was fantastic if i may say so myself). Now a days things are more complicated. not only does Leah have a boyfriend, but she still finds it appropriate to share a bed night after night with Paul (who probably will never find happiness because he is stuck on Leah for some godforsaken reason). Paul also finds it appropriate to put his hands all over Leah in the most inappropriate places. I have a boyfriend and we have been in a happy relationship for years so i see the value in being faithful to the person I love. it makes me sick to see Leah cheating and sit back and allow her real boyfriend to be deceived and cheated upon.
See that is what is wrong with America today, people like Leah are out to satisfy their own desires and deceive others to achieve that goal of total satisfaction. Paul is boarder-line suicidal over the fact that no girl wants him in a serious way. all Leah does is make it worse for everyone by pretending to love Paul but never quite going all the way because Paul had nothing to offer Leah financially. Leah's boyfriend is very protective but it's pretty hard to be protective from Florida when Leah is basically hooking up with Paul in New York. it's all smoke and mirrors, and her boyfriend falls for it every time. first it was a $200 diamond ring for their one month anniversary, Then the outrageous amounts of money for him to fly up here to come and see his "one and only love, Leah" and to fly her down to Fl to meet his friends. The list of money spent and gifts given goes on and on. it's really pathetic for people to use others for their own personal gain. Next thing you know she'll have guys all over the country spending money on her because "she's the one" (THE THOUGHT MAKES ME SICK).
One may ask "but Mackenzie how does this effect you? why should you care?" well dear reader it effects me because her antics with Paul effect my social status. would YOU want to be known as the girl with the cheating best friend? the one who tolerates disrespect for the idea of love and honesty? i've done nothing wrong but make good friends first semester. doing the right thing should never receive such a terrible title. the fact that my two friends have become my biggest pet peeve in the world is effecting me deeply. maybe my values are different from Leah's (possibly). maybe I should just let her boyfriend know she's using him for strictly his money (seems like a logical conclusion). never the less this can't end well for any of us...
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