Easy to Love

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

This all sounds like something we all would want from someone, the conflict comes with realizing that in order to receive the treatment sacrifices in ego, and pride must be made. It’s trade off that some cant bring them selves to make and as a result choose to hate and in doing so retaining their pride n ego at the expense of a daily heavy heart. And so comes the battle , heavy heart vs pride n ego, either one can be the death of you.

Heavy hearts dampen the personality and mask emotions that that tend to explode if they so happen to come to the surface because pride n ego failed to keep them at bay, meaning there’s a constant conscious effort to keep a heavy heart in place. Love isn’t thought about and then performed its constant and free flowing and more importantly over powers hate every time. So is it easy to hate n harder to love? , i say its easy to love n harder to hate.

Hating anything requires a constant reminding and reinforcement of why you hate it. I dont believe there's anything fluent or natural about hate. Therefore I dont even consider hate to be an emotion at all. Hate is concieved and very concious whereas all other emotions are unconcious. Like many things Hate is man made but has been placed amongst our natural emotions in an attempt to justify and mask its displacements amongst our day to day emotional spectrum.