I recall a day last summer when my world got turned upside down. I was in a rocky relationship with a female that we'll call Kate. Kate was mysterious person by nature and that trait about her drove me crazy at times. Its seemed as if she was unfaithful because of her secretive text messages, silenced phone, and tendency to screen her phone calls. Despite pressing her on her action she denied all allegations and so would I for some time, but that relief was always only temporary. It was on a simple summer night in which I just looked to enjoy the company of my friends that my relief would be blown out the water.
You see Kate worked in Times Square so It wasn't uncommon for me to be around her job unintentionally. More over she worked very late hours that went in the AM hours. One day while heading to the train station to go home. The summer got interesting. Kate's job was on the block of the train station, and as a result I came across a guy whose face I noticed. I was baffled at first but then realized he was guy who'd liked kate and often made advances at her. He was trolling the area of her job in what looked to be an attempt to set up a coincidental meeting with her. After waiting a while though he gave up, but no sooner than he left then Kate come out her job accompanied but another guy.When she saw me she introduced the guy and claimed he was a friend, but in my mind I was already convinced that this was all the proof I needed. That day for me was every guys nightmare and for me it was a breaking point.
In retrospect that night was horrible but it toughened my skin to a new level.Kate's actions helped my realize my inner most wants from other people and gave me a greater sense of self. It was painful beyond belief but I think everyone needs a Kate-like situation. So all in Thank You Kate!
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